Thank you for slowing me down. And for encouraging me to put down what does not work and play with what I am unsure of. Thank you for the confidence to say no. When I realized that I wanted to change my body, I began to sink into a tank of trans expectations. Thankfully, I made friends with a group of gender queer, glitter butch, trans fags that held me up, while I reimagined myself with more creativity and integrity. This is a love letter to all of you. Thank you for slowing me down. Thank you for unveiling the gag of gender! I love every one of you gender fucking, non binary, trans and GNC bb’s -you reimagine life for all of us.